The first thing we need to understand is all of us have to
face problems at some point or the other. Even the son of God, Jesus Christ,
faced plenty of trouble when he came down to Earth. So we need to realize that
we cannot control what happens to us. What we can control is our response and
attitude towards problems.
Everything Happens
for the Best
We should have faith and believe that everything happens for
the best in God’s divine play. God controls our essential bodily functions like
digestion, breathing while sleeping, etc and provides us with inexhaustible
oxygen that keeps us alive. So we should put our entire trust in this
magnanimous entity and not worry about anything because God is taking good care
of all of us.
The Positive Side of
Problems
Whenever something bad or sad happens to us, we should take
a grip on ourselves and objectively look at the positive side of it. Many
people become disillusioned and disappointed by persistent problems. The
positive side of this is you can become more detached and spiritual, and start
devoting more time to activities like meditation and introspection, which can
spur you on faster on the spiritual path to enlightenment.
Analyze the Problem
Objectively
The ideal way to handle a problem would be to think about it
objectively and not feel negatively about it. Think about the worst case
scenario and how you would be affected by it. Get to the root cause of the
problem and think about positive and concrete ways to solve it. If the problem
is not solvable, then cheerfully accept it. What cannot be cured must be
endured, if not enjoyed. Such a positive and light attitude can help you handle
any problem with felicity and ease.
Don’t Take the
Problem Personally or Too Seriously
If you have not created the problem yourself by some
injudicious action, then don’t take it personally or too seriously. We are here
on this planet for only a short while, so it makes no sense spending our time
in sadness. Try to face the problem with light-heartedness, and with a carefree
attitude. Think out of the box and try to solve it without getting affected too
much by it.
Go with the Divine
Flow
Ups and downs are part and parcel of existence. If we faced
no problems in life, then boredom could become a big problem. So take the good
and bad things as gifts from God. If something bad happens, then try to forgive
and forget and move on with your life. When we face problems with positivity,
calmness and confidence, then they would cease to have any adverse impact on
us.
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